Plumber-mediator

He asks me what kind of work I do. We meet over a glass of wine at a party. He is in his late sixties, h

as no children and never been involved in any, so my answer ‘lactation consultant’ doesn’t mean anything to him. ‘Whát do you do’?

And when I explain I assist mothers and babies with breastfeedingissues his next question is ‘What do you actually dó then’?

I tell him how mother co

 

ntact me for example with painfull nipples. And he wants to know more: what do I do then? So I show him on my fingertip what a difference it makes if pressure is applied to the top (uncomfortable and flow is blocked) or beyond (increased flow and comfort). And how a fingertip is actually similar in size, flow and sensitivity. And that increasing flow and comfort can make breastfeeding a more rewarding experience for mother and child.

“I see’, he says, ‘yo

u are some kind of plumber then. Milk needs to flow freely without any leaks’. Well… yeah, in that sense I am some kind of plumber.

But there is more, I explain. It’s not just technical. As a minimum I have 2 clients, mother and child. And if breastfeeding is not working well an important part of my job is to help them find the cooperation to form a team (again). And then there’s the network around mom and baby

: partners, family, healthcare professionals who need to be involved. Moreover there are also issues that deal with the autonomy of the baby more than with technique, such as bottlerefusal. Then it is my job to help the parents work with the baby to find a good solution that suits the whole family-team.

‘I see’, he says. ‘So you are also a mediator. You’re a plumber/mediator’.

He is happy he understands what I do for a living, and we contently enjoy our wine. Shall I put this title on my businesscard?

Concorde way to breastfeed: Video and FAQ’s

The Concorde way of latching on in breastfeeding was developed for tonguetied babies and their moms. It appears to be a usefull alternative hold with many other breastfeedingissues. There is a video about it which can be found here.

And these are the most frequently asked questions with an answer:

Does this hold make clipping buccal ties unnescessary?

Will this way of latching work for every breastfeedingproblem?.

With which breastfeeding issues may this hold be effective?

It is correct that mom’s fingers are so very close to babies mouth?

What about an increased risk of blocked ducts?

Why do you think baby learns to drink well this way?

Do you need to keep supporting the breast the whole feed?

Can you really correct latch without taking baby off the breast?

How can you use this concorde way of feeding after a c-section?

The new privacy law AVG/GDPR and my practice

While I am on vacation the new law will be mandatory. So here is an overview of the information I collect when you contact me:

After registration for a workshop:

  • Name, email and/or phonenumber so I know how many people will come and so I could inform participants of any chances should that be nescessary.

At registration as a client for help with breastfeeding

  • Name of mother, birthdate, email, phonenumber and streetadress. The latter so I can send an invoice which will be acceptable to an insurancecompany, and in case of a homevisit so I know where to go.
  • Name and date of birth of the child(ren).

After the visit I add:

  • Relevant notes about parents and child(ren) for follow-up
  • The summary I send the client after the visit.

Of colleagues and trainees I only keep contactdetails on my phone and in my mailbox in order to be able to reach them when needed. I do not keep a mailinglist of any kind.

I don’t:

  • Write newsletters, so do not keep a mailinglist of any kind
  • Register the BSN of clients
  • Register insurancedetails like name of company or registrationnumber.

Gegevensopslag

  • Registration for classes and appointments for private visits are processed by Calendly.com, sent through by Zapier.com and processed into my CMS www.insightly.com.
  • Name, adress and email are then also stored in my bookkeeping program www.Moneymonk.nl.
  • My FBpage and my site autmatically register visits and clicks. As far as I know neither me nor the person who built my site have added any additional trackingcookies or other privacy invading stuff.

I hope for now this is sufficient to comply with the AVG. Do you miss anything? Do let me know.

If you want to see what data I collected about you personally you can contact me in any way you choose and I’ll show you. Once you’ve proven you are who you say you are of course :)

Want to print this text? You can, but I haven’t translated it yet.

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En trouwens, waarom noemen we bevallingsverlof ‘vrij’?

En trouwens, waarom noemen we bevallingsverlof ‘vrij’?

Als een weekje vrij nemen en dat vullen met werkklussen geen vakantie is, hoe zit het dan met ons bevallingsverlof? Verlof… dat klinkt ook als vrij. Als uitrusten, bijkomen.
En daar hoort de verwachting bij dat je er na je verlof weer volop tegenaan kunt met je werk. Wat vaak niet bepaald de realiteit is. Lees verder

It’s nice but why do you call it a vacation?

It’s nice but why do you call it a vacation?

A week off sounds great. And my site and my facebook mention a week of holiday, a vacation. It does feel like that. Until a colleague I meet in an impromtu meeting looks at me and says ‘You did not take a week off, you reserved a week for other work than individual clients!’

Good point. I took a week ‘off’ to do work which requires uninterrupted time. Lees verder

Ongewoon, voor één keer.

Ongewoon, voor één keer.

Mijn reactie op het onderzoek met de conclusie ‘ook te dik met borstvoeding vergroot kans op overgewicht’ was ongewoon. Ongewoon snel. Maar ook ongewoon onzorgvuldig. Namelijk zonder het oorspronkelijke onderzoeksartikel grondig gelezen te hebben zoals ik gewoonlijk eerst doe.
En van die ongewone aanpak kom ik nu al weer enigszins beschaamd terug. Want in het echt artikel zijn meer nuanceringen en betere definities gebruikt dan in de abstract. En dat had ik dus eerst moeten lezen. Dat had ik kunnen bedenken.

Waarom ben ik dan toch afgeweken van mijn gebruikelijke grondige aanpak? Lees verder